This is something that hasn't been around for a long time, so we don't know the long term effects of this yet. Now with Facebook/Instagram women have instant access to see what is happening in the lifes of EVERY SINGLE ONE of her ex boyfriends. Before Social Media unless one of her boyfriends became FAMOUS (read about them in a tabloid magazine at the checkout in a grocery store) she would have absolutely no idea what is going on in his life. She would have to essentially hire a PI to spy on the motherfucker and find out where he lives, etc.

So what i'm saying is this: Lets say she has had 7 boyfriends before you, your number 8 and you two are married. Most likely all 7 of those guys are on her FB/I and if they aren't she can find them in about 5 seconds. So what happens is EVERY success that comes into those guys lives is like a SPOTLIGHT shining down on your existence. It will plant a seed of doubt in her mind and she will question why she married you when this other guy could of gave her a better life. All 7 other guys are married now. All it takes is 1 doing better than you for this to happen.

They have a bigger house, better car, better job, has a boat, has a pilots license, more money, guy has a successful business, they go on a kick ass vacations, kids are in private school, etc. This can go on all day. You can be RETROCUCKED by 7 other guys. And this isn't even including guys who she just FUCKED so add another 13+ guys for that one. And this is relationships that lasted more than 3 months so those short term boyfriends don't count either.