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Maybe you want to side with women, because you think it gives you brownie points with them. Unfortunately, a woman is NEVER on a man's side. Simply put, they think totally different from men. Women have different brains. For a woman, a man is simply a means to an end. Maybe you are young, maybe you think you are special, and maybe you want to believe in them. Unfortunately, if a man's relationship ever conflicts with her self-interest, she will betray you too.


Now you say 'Not all women are like that', and maybe there is a bit of variation, but their nature is basically all the same. I honestly think it has to do with the XX chromosome. It's like none of them differentiate or expand into adulthood, like men do. It's almost like they contract instead. I'm not complaining about it. It's just evolutionary forces at work, and being childlike is actually advantageous if you are raising them. However, given the current framework, where relationships are based on love and equality, getting involved with them is a bad idea, because a man can sacrifice his whole life for her, only to find out that she didn't really love him, despite repeatedly saying so otherwise. You find out the whole thing was just an act.


You'd be surprised at how easy it is for a woman to move on from a relationship, completely cutting all contact off and never looking back, even if a man has invested his emotions or financial resources in her for years. Don't say I didn't warn you. You can feel like she took a part of you that you will never get back. This is the point at which men become bitter and indifferent to them.

bgates276, Future Timeline Forums 6 Comments [11/4/2018 1:35:42 PM]
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Kanna

It's amazing how a man who clearly doesn't understand women at all still thinks himself qualified to comment upon that entire sex with sweeping (yet laughable) generalizations. Tell me, do you know any women? Have you ever spoken with one? An adult woman, I mean, not one from the local junior high school.

11/4/2018 2:07:23 PM

Musicalbookworm

Here a hint, if a woman breaks off all contact after years, it's because she has realized something about you that troubles her greatly. I'm going through this right now with my (soon to be former) partner of six years, and it is absolutely heart breaking. Realizing that your partner isn't who you thought they were is absolutely wrenching, especially when you thought you had found "the one." Feeling like you should have realized it sooner and feeling like you are abandoning your partner causes all kinds of guilt and shame. All the more so if you are an advocate for people with disabilities and you suspect mental illness, for which he refuses treatment. If a woman cuts you off abruptly without contact once maybe twice, it could be her or it could be an odd circumstance. If it is a pattern in your relationships, there is a common denominator here and it's not women.

11/5/2018 7:58:44 AM

practical god

Here is some advice. Mourn and move on. In fact, this is how women (and all well-adjusted sentient beings) do it. If no mutually acceptable relationship compromise seems possible, we just have ourselves a sad and then start walking. And no cries of "but I love you and bought you groceries for years, and therefore you owe me" will be effective at that point.

11/5/2018 10:28:27 AM

Just Along For The Ride

"Maybe you want to side with women..."

I wasn't aware there were sides.

11/6/2018 3:32:32 AM

Doubting Thomas

You'd be surprised at how easy it is for a woman to move on from a relationship, completely cutting all contact off and never looking back, even if a man has invested his emotions or financial resources in her for years.


If she's been in an abusive or otherwise just bad relationship, I don't blame her. But don't even try to imply that no men have ever done this.

11/6/2018 7:50:19 AM

Citizen Justin

"You'd be surprised at how easy it is for a woman to move on from a relationship, completely cutting all contact off and never looking back, even if a man has invested his emotions or financial resources in her for years."

Oh that explains it then. David J. Stewart, Paul Elam, Coyote Shivers, fifty million other assholes and now bgates276.

11/7/2018 3:38:44 PM

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