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on a woman finding out her boyfriend is a pedi that watches real child p0rn


I love roughing up a fit 19 year old girl in bed. I would never think of doing the same to my 19 year old daughter.

Just because he is attracted to children doesn't lead to him abusing his own.

You're right but it doesn't eliminate the possibility just because they would be his children. Things to consider, young children have young children friends. I'm not trying to be accusatory, just throwing it out there.

I view pedophiles the same as I view gay people or dudes that are into fat chicks



He didn't admit it until she caught him actually. And no, nowhere did I say he deserves persecution, I said he needs help. But this kind of behavior is deemed unacceptable for a reason: it hurts innocent people. It supports the industry that hurts these kids and it hurt his relationship that he has with OP. It's toxic because usually part of being involved with someone romantically involves having sex, which she can no longer fully trust in or enjoy because of his history.


This is a contentious point of view and heavily debated.

To take it to an even further extreme... Snuff films.

If somebody is going to torture a girl and take her life on camera you can reasonably argue that it is because the perp wants to kill and torture somebody. He's not some good person doing it just to satisfy a commercial demand.

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Forgiving him for what exactly? He has a sexual fetish that he was born with, no fault of his own.

Maybe I'm just getting Charmin soft in my old age but I think somebody that can admit to and own their sexual proclivities certainly qualifies as "sexually healthy" in my book.

Fetishes are acceptable and healthy when both parties involved are consenting. The children in child pornography are coerced or forced into those situations, explain to me how that's not detrimental? It's pretty hypocritical to call my statement contentious and then say that he can't help it and was born with the fetish when there's no evidence to back that. Sounds to me like you're justifying your own "proclivities".


If he was raping children? I've got the gun, you bring the bullets. There is NO excuse for that ever. We are both on the same page in that regard.

I was just saying that the viewpoint that "the demand for child porn drives the market for it" is heavily contested and hardly a truth carved in stone. There are very good arguments on both sides of the discussion.

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