Please don’t take modesty lightly. As your brother in Christ I value the relationship that I will have with my wife someday. When I am tempted because of you I lose a part of myself that I am trying to save for her. When I’m tempted because of you I become that much more accepting of the perversions in the world. When you remain pure and modest, my life is made so much easier. Instead of watching to ensure that I don’t sin I can focus on you as a person and fellow follower of Christ. I appreciate modesty more than you’ll ever know. Please, show respect of yourself and of me and be modest.
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Your problem is not that women are out to tempt you, it's that you're a 16-year-old male. If everybody wore burkas, you'd still be drooling imagining what was *under* the burkas. It's the hormones, stupid!
Nah, I'll pass, and hope severely that I do not end up as your future wife. Thanks all the same, you monstrously controlling prick.
Okay, look. Your sexual history will not ruin your marriage unless one or all parties make a big fuss about it. And if you'd refuse to marry someone just because she wasn't "pure", you don't fucking deserve to marry anyone. That's not love, jackass. All you want is someone who won't realize that the reason sex sucks so much is because of you.
If you care about the relationship with your wife it´s you, only you, who have to control your hormones and your pants. Stop blaming others for your own mistakes and problems. Nobody is forcing you to have sex out of marriage and enjoy it.
In all fairness to this guy, while I disagree with the whole "virginity/purity" shtick of Xianity, I do think that many women dress too slutty.
Sexy does not equal trashy, ladies. A reasonably attractive woman with a good mind and personality is worth a dozen Britney Spears wannabes.
"When I’m tempted because of you I become that much more accepting of the perversions in the world."
Good. Maybe then you will accept that life is not all sweetness and light. I wouldn't mind a threesome with an Amish girl and guy. Besides, its very sexy to corrupt them. BWAHAHA!
Please don’t take modesty lightly
I don't. I dress modestly. But if someone else wants to dress like a whore, more power to them.
As your brother in Christ I value the relationship that I will have with my wife someday
Okay?
When I am tempted because of you I lose a part of myself that I am trying to save for her
If your wife will honestly think you're never looked at another girl before her, she's an idiot.
When I’m tempted because of you I become that much more accepting of the perversions in the world. When you remain pure and modest, my life is made so much easier
Why don't you just stay inside your house with the windows closed then?
Instead of watching to ensure that I don’t sin I can focus on you as a person and fellow follower of Christ. I appreciate modesty more than you’ll ever know. Please, show respect of yourself and of me and be modest.
It's not my job to make sure you don't sin. It's yours.
Isn't there something the conservatives like to say, something like PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY?
Oh, it doesn't count in this kind of thing? My bad.
You're sixteen: *linoleum* makes you think of sex.
Silly quotes over and done with, I have to say that this is very expressive writing for a teenager. I hope his skill doesn't go to waste.
Modesty? We all have imagination, that kinda throws modesty out the window, once we turn 13.
If you can't stay modest unless everyone else stays modest, that's YOUR problem, not anyone else's.
Me and hubby showed something significantly different than "modesty" towards each other when we were teenagers.
We're still together, 23 years later.
Why is it every female's responsibility to make your life easier? Don't you think this "modesty" shit (which doesn't apply to you, I've noticed) makes our lives so much harder? Having to watch everything you say, do and wear so as not to inadvertently arouse some spoiled little brat with a severe entitlement fetish isn't easy!
“ When you remain pure and modest, my life is made so much easier.”
Not our problem. Not ANYONE’S problem but yours.
Your bible does NOT say, if your eyes lead you to sin, shout at the women for being tempting, does it?
It says to pluck them out. Your sin is YOUR problem.
Of course, this leads to you being in the ER, bleeding from your sockets, and when they ask ‘what happened’ you say ‘A woman wore a bikini!’
Sounds stupid, doesn’t it?
Then again, to hear you tell it.when you splash down into the Lake of Fire, one of the veterans will ask, “New meat! What’re you in for?” it makes sense that you’ll say, ‘A woman wore a bikini.’
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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