Why do men despise feminists who hate men when the hatred for men is an intrinsic part of the female experience?

The hatred, the fear, the bitterness, the anger, the dread, the horror, at and towards men will always, and has been, an intrinsic aspect of womanhood till the dawn of humanity to the end of it. Every single woman in this planet has had a moment in her life when her dislike has overwhelmed her and driven her out of the bullshit and lies she tells herself.

Hatred of men wasn't a movement in the 20th century - my Pakistani conservative mother, my Pakistani conservative friends, my radical Muslim female acquaintances, all dislike men. Every single one of them. We avoid going out at night because we're scared of men. We don't piss off men because we're scared of them. We tell ourselves that "boys will be boys" because we know men. We yell at and create drama amongst other women because we do not have the emotional strength to do it against men. We serve men, we live with the systems men created, we normalize male violence, we protect ourselves from men, because men inconvenience us, and we know it. They inconvenience all of us.

Most women do not get angry at men - they cry or accept it. Every single woman in the planet knows men are different, but she copes and copes and fucking copes with bullshit upon bullshit till she takes her final breath with a good amount of delusion - but with the incapability of believing it completely. Feminism is simply addressing the elephant in the room. All women are wary of men. All women are inconvenienced by men. All women dislike men.