I can't even comprehend how people have kids
I've never seen a married woman NOT treat her husband like shit.
Every single married woman I've seen talked down to her husband. You want to have kids with that? (probably isn't the one getting her pregnant anyway)
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Even if you love someone deeply, there will still be times when you are annoyed by them. But then, I would not put it past incels to be incapable of distinguishing friendly banter from verbal abuse. Now add paranoid bias that always assumes the worst about women, and now I may be starting to understand how incels delude themselves into believing that happily married couples don't exist.
We do not talk down to each other with my wife. Hel, in two years of marriage, I think I only got annoyed with her twice, mostly because I was otherwise tired.
So, nope, incels' problems are theirs alone.
Oh we argue, he can bet his shriveled dick we do. Like any people in a lifelong relationship sometimes we want different things or somebodsy forgets something... If for him that would be unacceptable in marriage, then he really doesn`t even begin to get how actual people live with each other. I love my Mattie to death, he`s my sunshine and when we are together, e can communicate with our very own slang, we slowly developed over the years but time and again he will forget to put my id back in my purse after taking it out or I will forget about the dishes before bed or he`ll buy some outlandish crap at walmarts instead of the stuff I wrote down for him on a grocery list and sometimes we get snarky or outright mad for a moment. It`s still a moment, an eyeblink in an otherwise blissfull life we lead together.
"I've never seen a married woman NOT treat her husband like shit."
Well, I'm convinced. 30 years of marriage, three kids, and someone who couldn't even get a woman to 'treat him like shit' for two days in a row knows more about relationships than I do.
That's it, filing for divorce this afternoon...
Hmm... I've never been married, but the only time I've had a fight with one of my lovers is when my current boyfriend planned to put a lot of money into Bitcoin. Good thing too, because it finally crashed shortly afterward. I've had occasional fights with family and friends, but that never changed our relationship, whether good or bad, in any real respect in the long run.
I don't know what that says about anything, this just made me think a little.
So like what others said, if she is being "uppity" by communicating and not behaving like a human doormat, then she's treating her husband like s**t?
Well, with such reasonable standards and expectations you have in a relationship, no wonder you're still single.
@Kat S: "So like what others said, if she is being "uppity" by communicating and not behaving like a human doormat, then she's treating her husband like s**t? "
Well, my mum had sociopathic tendencies (not unlike incel idiology; she came first over and above everything and other people were either there 'for' her, were irrelevant or were troublemakers), and the moment I had a life that didn't revolve around her (ie., when I got a boyfriend) she had a shout at me about how I was treating her like shit. I didn't get rebellious at her with the advent of that relationship; I literally had someone else in my life who I treated nicely. And she couldn't hack it. Reminds me of incels bawwing about polygamy, female-male or female-female friendships, etc.
Yes, my wife has talked down to me, and I have been caught talking down to her. But being mature human beings we can acknowledge our mistakes, and try to change them to be better people
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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