There is no gay couple in existence that adopts a child and doesn't rape them. I'm not even going to say change my mind, because nothing will change my mind on that. Every gay couple I've seen with a baby, carries it around like a trinket, not like a loving parent. There is an immediate obvious visible difference. They like to pretend they're just a normal family, but it's not even that they're gay that gives it away, it's their demeanor and interactions.