If I had a dollar for every time... *facepalms and sighs*
Listen closely, you numpty:
There's a part of your precious Tenth Amendment that you're conveniently either forgetting or ignoring. Here, I'll help you with that:
"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people."
--- United States Constitution, Amendment 10 (emphasis mine)
The power for any U.S. state to ban same-sex marriage is a power prohibited by the U.S. Constitution to the states, according to the 9th and 14th Amendments. Q, to the E, to the muh-fuh'n Dizzle.
Now, take this stack of paper and this pen, and write the following five hundred times:
"LIBERAL" DOES NOT MEAN "ANYONE HAVING OPINIONS I DON'T LIKE", NOR DOES IT MEAN "ANYONE POLITICALLY TO THE LEFT OF RICK SANTORUM OR PAT ROBERTSON."
Then, when you're done with that, keep the pen ready, take this stack of paper, and write the following five hundred times:
STRIKING DOWN EXISTING LAWS BECAUSE THEY VIOLATE THE U.S. CONSTITUTION IS NOT THE SAME AS MAKING NEW LAWS.