The West is now entirely a secular society and culture. There is no higher moral standard. No doctrine, religious or otherwise, that stands above, apart from, and unmoved by the forces of secularism.

There are many virtues to a secular society. However, the West has taken this to an extreme, believing that it is the job of government and laws to beat down and destroy any belief system that stands above or apart from it. In this worldview, no religious or other moral system is allowed to exist without explicit authority given it by government. The "progressives" of the West have seen something they like in China and adopted it for the West.

Hence, you have things like Obamacare superseding and obliterating people's religious beliefs. If you think abortion is morally wrong, well fuck you! You have to pay for it anyway. There are a million examples like that now.

You can't do anything about it. What you do need to do is RECOGNIZE reality. Since there is no other moral system than secular culture, all norms of behavior and beliefs are now defined by secular media, cultures, and government (which is run by know-it-all bitches and their White Knights). Women go with the flow, and the flow is exactly what you see in media. "Empowered" means fuck whoever you want. "Equality" means, "we are free to be bitches." And so on. The are now celebrated for doing the exact opposite of what is good for them.

For a man, this ultimately means you cannot trust a woman in the West. You might fool yourself into thinking you have love, but you will sure enough find that you are wrong. The first few times you think you have found love, and then love selflessly (as men often do), you will end up devastated.

As you walk through the West, if you are dealing with reality, you are viewing women as options for short term pussy and nothing more. PUA is an odd obsession to me, but they have a point. If you want pussy, you should approach it like going to the Apple Store. You look around, approach what you want, ask for what you want. If the price is too high, or its just not for sale, just move on to the next item. Don't give it a moments of remorse. No woman in the West is worth remorse.

This is harsh stuff. But to get some joy out of this life you must deal with reality, not fantasy. If you grew up in a fairly normal environment, your mother loved you. But no other woman in the West will ever love you. They have been instructed not to love you, to use you, and to pursue their own desires. They are incapable of love even if they wanted to love. The only love a Western woman is capable of is narcissistic self-love.

I'm sorry this is reality. It hurts to come to this realization. But you must. If you do not, your life will be ruined. I've been there, done that. And learned my lesson. If I want to feel a woman's love, I go to another country where woman are still capable of genuine love.