No, sin is not sin, as you are describing it. Some sins, like some crimes, are more heinious than others, and require a greater "sentence" or punishment, if you will. Your views on homosexuality are warped, to say the least. You are correct that many Christians have let down the biblical standard in many areas, which makes it hard for them to speak out against homosexuslity. Divorce, and many other things, have diminished the work of the true church. Homosexuality does more damage than divorce ever thought of. It eats at the very fiber of society as a whole, like a cancer. Jake's needs to go back to Calvary, and dip afresh and anew in the blood of Christ which he shed to purchase our souls. He is riding the fence on a clear cut biblical truth.