Thanks for all the input. I'm dealing with a person who is bent on destroying me. The longer time goes on, the worse it gets. And the timing of phone calls and other things he does, well, there is no way that he could know when to do these things (perfect timing repeatedly) except with some kind of demonic influence. He basically wont step foot in a church (I know that really doesn't mean much). The attacks have gradually gotten worse over 10 years.

I understand spiritual warfare exists, etc. and the Lord finally showed me that this may need to be dealt with on a spiritual level in His power. Not mine of course. But I truly dont know what to do. I pray and pray alot. I pray for his salvation, I have others praying for his salvation.

But he seems intent on literally destroying me. When people dont let up over this long of a time, something is truly wrong.

So I am looking for understanding on how to figure out if he actually possessed. I know he is demonically guided (due to the timing of his activities) but possession may have occurred. I hope I"m making sense and that you guys will believe I"m not exaggerating.