Married 11+ years now. Went through a long stretch of female-sense-of-entitlement and making things tense with shrewish behavior..we almost called it quits a handful of times... hate to be cliche but society certainly has it's role in making women think they have a right to act that way.. commercials and sitcoms and cosmos et al...

Accepted Christ as my savior, became "born again" and bible-believing a little over a year ago... DH still agnostic and materialistic, but the marriage has done a complete 180 anyway. Now I'm rightfuly gratefully to be with a good, kind, man...praying for his salvation quietly, and household has been nag-free for over a year. Happy, peaceful... child's ADD symptoms went away, anxiety gone... hot meals minimum 5out of7 nights, He's the boss of us as God intended and I can relax and worry about those things specific to my domain... which doesnt include home buying. When he was considering buying a new home (we're expecting twins) he asked for my 2 cents, I gave it, and then left the decision to him, as it should be. Its definitely time for a general rebound from neofeminism, imho.

And you guys thought Christianity was all about the downsides! ; D