That's why I am only going to date my wife after we are married. other than that, it's a nope on dating.
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How do you plan on finding this imaginary wife, then?
From my own experience, I don't find a lot of "dating" within marriage. When my husband and I go to see a movie or eat out, it's not a date. It's simply going to see a movie or sharing a meal with my husband. The only married people who really have a "date night" are parents who have to make a point of getting away from the kids and spending time alone together. Otherwise, it's just dinner and a movie.
sounds like a plan.
A silly plan.
"To me, the most obscene word in our language is celibacy."
Robert Ingersoll
.........."Liberty in Literature", 1890
Here is the post that God's Child was agreeing with above:
"My main problem with dating is that it opens up emotions and intimacy that SHOULD be saved for marriage. I mean, if you kiss and hold hands and snuggle and whatever with a date, then how is that going to be special in marriage. It sets you up to become bored in marriage. What's to stop you from divorcing because the chemistry ends? I'm not saying that'll definitely marriage, but I think it'll be much more special if all that romance is saved ONLY for the person I marry." Clearly, these people believe that it's impossible to become bored with your spouse if you never got to First Base before your wedding. Notice that neither of them has ever been married themselves, and so is NOT talking from personal experience....
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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