No one should ever have sex with anyone unless you want to have a child with that person, it is simply that.
If a man doesn't want to have a child he can use a condom [doesn't this choice contradict the first sentence?], not have ex, or get a vasectomy, that is where his choices are.
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Riiiiight. Never have sex unless you are trying to have children. Got that.
Of course, if you wear a condom, you can still TRY to have children, but you're increasing the challenge; and if you have a vasectomy, you're really going against the odds there. But it's nice to know that these are still valid choices even if you ONLY can have sex if you're trying to have a child.
~David D.G.
Yea, I don't get this. They say, "If everyone was abstinent until they wanted a kid, there would be no need for abortion." Yea, that's true, but the same thing would be true if everyone were gay! They just can't seem to wrap their minds around the idea that not every solution is a good or feasible solution.
<< Of course, if you wear a condom, you can still TRY to have children, but you're increasing the challenge >>
This time I'm going to blow my load so powerfully you can't HELP but get pregnant!
I don't see what the big deal is. Freeper's not saying that sex is only for procreation... he/she's saying that you shouldn't have sex with someone unless it is someone you care about so that you don't risk knocking up someone you couldn't raise a kid with. If you don't agree with abortion, that seems like a pretty responsible mindset; also, it seems almost progressive for the rapture ready set.
yeah, i see his point, even people with a vasectomy still have children by accident, happens more often then you would think. I think he is just making the point not to have sex with any slut.. wait for that special slut who you wouldn't mind raising your baby if the condom broke.
Well, let´s suppose I am a widow, I have had my kids and I want to spend the rest of my life with a man I love(I´m fifty-eight, let´s asume)dearly. Are we to sleep in separate beds?, or this way, let´s suppose I know that either my husband or I or the two are sterile, or we become for some reason in our marriage, should we have a perpetual celibate state?
Besides, you forget that a woman can get a pill or rhythm control or the cap, to cite other methods. And of course, all contradict the first sentence, but let´s imagine she will die during childbearing, abstinence again?
"No one should ever have sex with anyone unless you want to have a child with that person, it is simply that."
I don't know that I agree with your wording, but I find it hard to argue with your central premise: You want to do a sex? Be prepared for the consequences.
"If a man doesn't want to have a child he can use a condom [doesn't this choice contradict the first sentence?], not have ex, or get a vasectomy, that is where his choices are."
I... actually, yeah. Those are kinda right.
You haven't had any sex yet, have you, dearie? People want to have sex because it creates a unifying, bonding feeling, and it's relaxing and pleasant. I'd guess that 99 percent of all sexual acts do NOT lead to procreation.
What about a woman's choice?
Me and hubby have had unprotected sex since 1998. It has only resulted in one (known) miscarriage in 2002. I wanted to have a child with my husband, but obviously God didn't agree, or something...
Of course, that doesn't remove the need for an abortion at times. Medical emergencies, for example, or a massive change in the circumstances. A lot can happen in nine months ....such as "daddy" disappearing over state lines...
“No one should ever have sex with anyone unless you want to have a child with that person, it is simply that.”
Okay.
“If a man doesn't want to have a child he can use a condom”
But that IS having sex with someone you don’t want to have a child with. ALl credibility is lost, idiot. If you’re going to allow birth control, birth control can fail, and then we’re RIGHT BACK at the abortion debate.
“not have ex,”
What does my former girlfriend have to do with having sex with my current girlfriend?
“or get a vasectomy, that is where his choices are.”
Vasectomies can fail, just like anything else used as birth control
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