When we were first married neither my wife nor I were strong Christians. Sad to say we mainly gave lip service to the Lord. It has only been in the last year that I have seen the error of my life—but my wife has not been willing to see how unsaved our lives had been. She is still likely to allow our sons to watch stuff like this Oprah; or allow them to read books like Harry Potter. It has been very frustrating to try and keep satan out of our lives while she seems to want to invite him back in.