"All unbelievers hate God as He is described in the bible."
No, I hate what the IDEA of God does to individuals and societies, but I can't hate that which doesn't exist.
"I can't count how many times I've read posts here on Rays blog from unbelievers to that effect."
I'm sorry to hear about your tragic inability to count. I hope you can get some appropriate help for that condition.
"The unsaved man does not seek after God, in fact he he cannot, he is at war against God."
You're right, as an "unsaved man" I do not seek after God, because seeking after an imaginary being would be pointless, however, being at war with an imaginary being would be equally pointless.
"You cannot sit on a fence on this one, you either love God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength, or you hate Him."
The absence of love is not necessarily hate. When you grow up you may realize this.
"Saying you don't believe in Him is foolish, and just shows Gods word to be true and every man a liar"
Not believing in that for which there is no credible evidence is far from foolish.
My not believing in your God delusion in no way proves "God's word" to be true nor does it prove every man to be a liar, however, you are providing evidence that you are likely to be either a fool or a liar, if not both.