[Child abuse for Jesus and it's all about that song 'I kissed a Girl']
my kids wouldnt turn wild or rebellious when thye get the chance. The moment I saw something like that would be the moment they got a spanking with a belt. I guess they could go off to college and become wild and rebellious. However that wont happen either since unless they have a full ride scholarship thye will attend a local community college before going off somewhere.
it has been my experience the kids and teens who turn wild or rebellious are the ones that the parents do not spank with the belt when they need it.
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I won´t surprised if they will develope in another way than WCG777 expects. upallnite already mentioned it... Priests daughters ;)
Very probably they won´t have a problem to play the obedient kids for their mother and being totally different as soon as they aren´t near mom & dad :D
I had a relatively relaxed and "liberal" upbringing in my teens (although my mum would have spanked me a bit when I was much younger) and I didn't rebel as a teenager. Why? 'Coz what the fuck exactly was I going to rebel against!
Kids will only rebel if you give them a reason to.
Brought up in a catholic (then protestant) home and beaten with the belt by my father. Guess what?
I never believed in the christian god and have serious trust issues where men are concerned.
I hope your daughter runs off and files charges before you have the chance to fuck up her life, you hateful, abusive asshole.
I grew up in a home like this. Unlike some of my older siblings, I didn't really rebel. I just became suicidally depressed and developed trust issues. Way to parent, there, asshole.
Look bro....rebellion isn't caused by listening to the "Devil's Music" and such...I mean, FUCK man, that is PART of the rebellion for these kids: listening to music you've tabooed
Their rebellion is caused by you because of you're constant micro-managing and controlling "Oh! Little Jimmy said he's no longer sure about God...the belt is coming off!"
Goddamn it man, yes I was spanked, but not with the belt...and guess what? I turned out just fine
I was spanked at arbitrary intervals with a wooden spoon throughout my childhood (not into my teens, though), and while I have put the spankings themselves behind me (no pun intended!) I have never, ever forgotten the use of the wooden spoon. Nobody needs to use objects to spank their children.
I was rather unruly/wild and was spanked with a belt. Now I am a witch, happily married with a beautiful daughter. Think about that you moron. And, no....I didn't "take the strap" to my daughter. No way.
"it has been my experience the kids and teens who turn wild or rebellious are the ones that the parents do not spank with the belt when they need it"
Bzzzt. Incorrect moron. If you belt them in order to keep them in line, they'll only learn to avoid you when they want to do something you disagree with, and will be unable to learn the consequences for certain behavior beyond "mommy will beat me". Those are the kids that go hog wild, the ones who live under a control freak.
Funny, I was beaten and raised in a fundie home and I rebelled big time. Booze, sex, drugs if it was available, I did it.
My spouse was never hit harder than a 'smarten up' cuff to the back of the head. The worst thing he ever did was a little teenage drinking, and a real life situation from the song "Wake up little Suzie".
For those who don't know the song (It's ancient, from back in the time of Drive-ins).
http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=xbLuWciXFcM
I'm twenty and I'm hardly "wild" or "rebellious." The most "wild" and "rebellious" thing I've ever done was return a library book two days late.
Yet my folks never beat me senseless with a belt just for looking at 'em wrong.
The moment I saw something like that would be the moment they got a spanking with a belt.
You can't spank your child when there old enough to drive.
However that wont happen either since unless they have a full ride scholarship thye will attend a local community college before going off somewhere.
Community college? LOL! You might as well send your chilren back to high school.
it has been my experience the kids and teens who turn wild or rebellious are the ones that the parents do not spank with the belt when they need it.
Rebellious teens tend to come from controlling households.
Your child will rebel in college. You just won't know about most of it.
I'm nearly eighteen and feel no urge to rebel cause my parents are liberal hippies.
I don't understand why there's a hatred of community college, though.
Jay-Sus: Ah, but you forgot, the US didn't sign.
Martha Jones: Eh. Some places the title of 'high school with ash trays' is deserved. Not everywhere, though, so I don't think it's really fair.
I was spanked, and sometimes abusively so (more so than normal, that is), and I grew up with serious anger issues. I didn't start to calm down until after I got older and they felt that spankings weren't as appropriate.
I haven't forgiven them yet, nor am I sure that I ever will. Physical and psychological abuse from them both.
Hey, community colleges aren't necessarily bad -- at least here in California. I remember one of my philosophy profs (in a pretty heavily fundie town) inviting Satan to appear before them so that they could enter into an agreement -- just to prove to the fundies in the class that it wouldn't happen . I had to stifle a laugh at seeing how many students in the room flinched.
'my kids wouldnt turn wild or rebellious when thye get the chance. The moment I saw something like that would be the moment they got a spanking with a belt.'
And they will either turn it around & use the belt against fundy Mom or Dad, or they will shut elderly Mom or Dad out of their lives after they're grown & have moved on.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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