What I have to come understand, through the Holy Spirit, is that God created sex for Himself. The act of marriage was created by God so that He could join with His creation. In short, God wants to bring forth after His kind. Therefore, God fashioned sexual expression and orgasm so that He could mate with humanity.

One God, one Spirit, one flesh

Our Father designed sex as a way for men and women to join together and become one flesh. However, and more importantly, God created sex so that in the “act of marriage”, mankind could join with Him too. The stunning truth is that, during intercourse, God joins spiritually with the couple as they mate physically. When a man and woman make love, at a certain point their spirits intermingle as they merge with God Himself. When a man or woman exclaim, Oh my God!, they do so because they are literally joining with the Almighty. In fact, what orgasm actually constitutes, is a place of union with God and man, which has the potential to create an eternal spirit.

God says,

“For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.”

Here is a truth,

“Love making is intended to be the highest form of worship between spiritually joined mates and God”

God created sex, and orgasm within sex, to be the climax of His creation. Fully 95% or more of what is possible to experience while making love (in my estimation) is spiritual and only a relatively small part is physical compared to the whole. It is just that, since the fall, man lost access to God’s Spirit and thus, most of what coitus was meant to be, was lost too. In fact, the wearing of fig leaves was a direct result of losing our sexual union with God. We betrayed Him, thus we became ashamed.

In our relationships we need to understand that sex with each other is, in fact, also sex with God. Frankly, we love and worship of our creator and unite with Him as we love each other. God is in each one of us, combining with our spirits so that He can procreate through us. That is why the church is likened to a bride. We, like a virgin promised to a groom, are created for His pleasure.