If you get raped, take a hot shower, put on some clean clothes, even cry a little bit, but then wash your face and move on. Life is not fair it is often cruel and continuing to be depressed about it is beyond childish. That’s the bottom line.
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Simple analogy for you, Nav: let's say you (not some strawman) were robbed and beaten. Would it be okay to say, "Hey, life's unfair. Get dressed, put some concealing cream on your puffy eyes and other black and blue patches of skin, and move on"?
Having someone hold you down and turn your tight ass into Goatse...you'd just take a shower (fucking up any chance for a rape test kit), maybe even cry a little, then get on with your life, huh?
You realize women (and men) can quite literally be raped to death, right?
If I kick the living shit out of you, knock out an eye, crush your scrotum and break two or three ribs, take a hot shower, put on some clean clothes, even cry a little bit, but then wash your face and move on. Life is not fair it is often cruel and continuing to be depressed about it is beyond childish. That’s the bottom line.
Exactly what I did, give or take a month of crying through my broken pride, self image and a few other things. Now, I should have a full right to assume you`d take your advice as well, wouldn`t you? Something in me really would like to conduct reality check if you would...
Holy shit, Skide; we agree.
Maybe..,just maybe...this idiot's rhetoric will be what brings humanity together!
(Just kidding. The US just elected Teflon Donald so we and any progeny you may have won't be seeing peace again for a fairly long time.)
@Psycho Tits
And we mr.Kaczynsky, how is that better?
Ok, in that one thing, that our tyrant has already destabilised our country enough and in such a short time, Canada already signed Poland on a refugee countries list, so we`re actually moving. I even started to learn french and I thought nothing could force me to try... ^^
@ Skide: You realize the unabomber was/is a mathematician with an IQ of 167...a man who, when was 18 and already at Harvard for two years when he was subjected to THIS:
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2000/06/harvard-and-the-making-of-the-unabomber/378239/
Where does evil come from? Sometimes there's no telling.
Other times...
A person with an IQ of, say, 161, will remember a lot of things in detail that others can block out or let fade with time. It's made even worse because the gap between that and average is large enough that it sometimes seems like other people are thinking in slow motion. It's socially isolating (which is part of why I feel genuine sympathy for some incels: They don't fit in and some of them are hurt by constant rejection when they can't understand why...why do some women go further than saying no and openly humiliate them?)
I, a woman, was invited to precisely one sleepover as a child. I was so happy.
I was the mark.
Parents ended the sleepover early and sent us all home because shortly after I fell asleep, the girls got together and dumped a container of urine on me.
@ Uilleam:
I appreciate the correction.
Two bad things happened at once when I checked the correct individual:
1. I fucked up a fact and went the totally wrong direction. (I hate fucking up facts. It seriously haunts me - so I appreciate the correction.)
2. I learned about yet another asshole who can barely maintain his disguise - that of a human being.
Great.
Okay, then; We'll put you in a room with this really big scary guy called "Bubba The Butt Banger".
We'll return in a couple of hours and you can report to us if you still think rape is no big whoop.
Cross your fingers!
Is that what you did when you got raped, Navie? Did you stop being depressed?
I'd say go straight to the police, get a rape-kit and secure evidence. THEN take a hot shower and pamper yourself as much as you can for some time. Talk it out, if that feels good, rage and storm and punch as many pillows and walls as you want, and place ALL the blame on the criminal, none of it on you.
Getting the monster who did it to take responsibility and face the consequences for his/her actions is pretty far from childish.
Confused?
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