If your husband and you do not want children and are intending never to have children, you do not have a marriage
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A response from further down the thread:
OK! I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF THESE GODDAMN ASSHOLES!
Sandman, my condolences. I'm sure that's a sore point, and I am glad that you and your wife do not define marriage simply by reproduction.intent or desire to have children, not their ability to have children, so I think she might cut you some slack (if that matters). That said, however, I still think she's absolutely nuts for imposing on others her own ideas of what makes a marriage worthwhile, let alone attempting to redefine marriage itself. That's just not remotely consistent with reality.
~David D.G.
No, I don't think this idiot would cut us any slack. We talked a lot when we found out we could not have children and we realized that we were going to have to let go of our desire for children if we were going to be happy. Otherwise there would always be a void in our lives and it would be too easy to turn on each other over it. We were not then in a position where we could adopt, and now it's really too late in our lives for that.
So if my widdowed mother, who is past menopause, would like to re-marry, it would be bad. And if my lesbian neighbours wish to be married and have children, with a sperm doner, that would be good.
Actually, if she's also one of those "gay marriage shouldn't be legal because gay people can't have babies" people, this is a refreshing step away from much of the hypocrisy that holders of that position display.
At least he's being consistent. Most fundies (and senators) who object to gay marriage say the straight marriage is special because it can bear children but don't follow through to the logical conclusion that people unwilling or unable to have children shouldn't be allowed to get married.
Well, pianobitch, my wife would kick your ass for such an ignorant, fucked up comment.
Well, I agree with one of the posts. If I re-marry or marry for the first time at 60, for whatever reason, am I living in sin?
We talked a lot when we found out we could not have children and we realized that we were going to have to let go of our desire for children if we were going to be happy.
And, besides, what are they supossed to do? if they choose not to marry, they are living in sin, if they don't live together, they are singles and their life style is bad. How can you be happy with those guys, just having 80 clones of you?(by the way, my mom couldn't have more children apart from my brother and I because of an illness. Does it mean that she's a single mother?)
Really pianomom? My marriage license says different. Sorry, but my womb is NOT the feature that attracted my husband. Go fuck yourself. Obviously, you need to, because your good ol' Catlick husband probably doesn't fuck you anymore since he got you knocked up..since you Catholics think that's the only thing sex is good for.
If you actually WANT children, why not adopt?
Well, you have to remember that pianoupherassmom would never be deemed fit to adopt a kid by any rational adoption agency anyway, so if she wants impressionable minds to brainwash she needs to pop them herself.
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