Here's a good way to make sure you don't hold someone's hand, or kiss them-your husband is down the line somewhere. How do you think he would feel if he knew you were kissing someone else, holding someone elses hand? Giving what is his away. I mean, how would you feel if you knew your husband had already given his kiss away, or even his entire purity? We all dream of a guy who hasn't done anything with another girl right? It goes both ways. And also, that guy you kiss is someone elses future husband. So I also had to repent of not only not staying faithful to my future husband and giving away something that was rightfully his, but taking away his first kiss aswell. A first kiss that rightfully belonged to someone else. But I've repented, and I've made a promise, a vow to God, to wait.