>and their "FEEEEELINGS" are not a valid test
Why not?
>you cannot diagnose "FEEELINGS"
Emotions, personal perception, ideas, beliefs, etc. are all the result of biochemistry in the brain. Literally everything that will ever go on in your mind is this biochemistry at work. It can be understood scientifically. We still have a long way to go in gaining complete understanding, but we have a better understanding of it today than we did 100 years ago. Some people's brain chemistry leads them to have gender dysphoria, others are lead to feel that the only way they can get personal validation is by disregarding and minimalizing the thoughts, perceptions, feelings, and experiences of others.
>they are not a true representation of reality
But they are one of the innate ways a human can manage to have any degree of understanding of that reality at all. It's possible, and perhaps even likely that all we think we know about reality, doesn't really reflect reality at all. In order to have any basis for attempting to understand it at all we must filter it through our brains, which are limited by their own physical capacity. Humans are emotional creatures, and humans are good at rational thought. These are our two ways of trying to wrap our brains around reality. You say that a person cannot experience gender dysphoria; people with gender dysphoria say that they do experience it. You may say that no one could possibly like apples; people who like apples would say that they do in fact like them. The reality is that there are people who experience gender dysphoria, and there are people who like apples. Whatever reality actually is, both groups are closer to being a true reflection of it than you are by denying the fact that they exist, when very clearly they do.
But if you prefer rational thought to emotion, fine. Rationally I can't see where people trying to alter their own bodies to resemble the gender they perceive themselves as being really affects me. They aren't bothering, or harming me, and therefore I see no reason why I should go out of my way to cause them even more grief and hardship than they already face. The world would be much better off if everyone minded their own business.
>and if they are having trouble with reality ..... medicine is not the answer
Does this apply to others, or just them? Because you could say that schizophrenics have trouble with reality. People with dyslexia have trouble with reality. People who have poor vision have trouble with reality. If medicine is not the answer to human health issues what exactly is? I mean aside from superstition, or other woo.
>how does a person "know" how the opposite sex "FEEEELS" when they are NOT the opposite sex
They don't. They do however know what it's like to be of one gender, but not of the corresponding sex they think that they should be. Gender and sex are not the same things. Sex is a physiological trait, while gender is a psychological one. Normally they correspond. Occasionally they do not. Modern medicine says, "hey, we can try to fix that and allow you to live a better, happier life, or at least make you feel more at home in your own body." You say, "NUH UH! FEELINGS DON'T COUNT UNLESS THEY"RE MY FEELINGS AND I FEEL LIKE MAKING STRANGERS LIVES NEEDLESSLY MISERABLE BECAUSE I'M AN ANGRY ASSHOLE!"
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