Have caused somewhat of a crisis methinks,went to a good friends wedding yesterday,this guy i have known for many years and sadly a year ago almost to the day his partner passed away in a car accident leaving him with 2 children aged 7 and nine,great kids both but then he took up with a supposed native of our country who it seems used his understanable grief to worm his way into there lives,many discussions in the last year on the subject didnt deter him and yesterday at the wedding i stood my ground and said what many others there were thinking,when during the formality the minister asked if "anyone had any objections etc" i stood up and presented mine which as you can imagine didnt go down to well,the natives family took particular objection to my thoughts and an all in broke out resulting in the bride running from the church. am hoping my man realizes his good fortune but it seems as yet i am the bad guy. Will see what happens i guess.