[To a 29-year-old woman who is waiting for a more "stable" financial situation before having children:]
the reality, which you can read in any biology textbook, is that the childbearing years for human females are from about age 15 to about 30-35. After this, your eggs are starting to be defective, producing kids with ADHD and other physical and mental difficulties at a far greater rate, and worse - as each year past 30 passes your odds of being completely infertile without invasive and expensive medical treatment skyrockets. God designed women to be mothers first and to have college and careers later, when they're finished having children. The modern PC Feminist attitude completely disregards God's design and in unnatural and unsustainable. God never meant for women to wait until their natural childbearing years were over to get married and try to have children. Millions of women who tried this anyway are now inconsolably depressed when natural reality trumped PC modernism. Don't be one of these women. You're already very close to the end of your opportunity - don't expect God to provide you with miracles later if you knowingly snub the natural order. As many, many weeping women can tell you, most likely He won't.
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Well, oddly enough I think this is a sign of progress. This is the rear guard in the march toward equality, and even this person has to acknowledge women can have careers at some point. I think it's a bit like what happened with racism: even the worst bigots have to rationalize, because they know they are on the fringes.
The issue with ADHD is not the people who have it, it is the culture that cannot deal with it. When you cant fit a Bird of Paradise into a fishbowl, the solution is to get a bird cage, not cut of it's wings in the hopes that it will have to learn how to swim.
"God designed women to be mothers first and to have college and careers later, when they're finished having children."
Men, however, have no age where they naturally cease to be fertile, unlike women's menopause. So you can get newspaper headlines like "90-year-old became a father! Didn't know the gun was loaded!"
Does that mean God designed men to never have college and careers at all?
Sort of none-of-your-business, isn't it? As many a weeping woman can tell you, being TOO fertile and having a houseful of little kids (thus cutting off her opportunity to do OTHER things in life) is the problem that you fail to address In your one-sided analysis.
Fifteen is *not* a prime child-bearing year. Technically, those are between twenty-four and thirty, but many healthy children have been born outside that range.
Note: Men do not have a defined andropause, but both decreased motility and chromosomal damage become more marked with age.
What really gets my goat is that this turkey completely ignores the fact that the woman is waiting until she's FINANCIALLY STABLE enough to have kids. These Stepford assclowns are more than happy to see children starving and living in poverty if it means upholding some antiquated gender roles.
Faith should ALWAYS be paired with REASON, or else you end up with the OP.
As someone with ADHD, FOAD.
@Ivurm: Thank you. That's exactly what I wanted to say, only better put.
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Puncess Carlostia: '"My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic" is quite Feminist; hay , I'm a female and I'm the ruler of Equestria, and I provide a daily mare acle: raising the sun. It certainly makes Hasbro financially stable .
...oh, and Shining Armour has ensured Princess Cadence will have a child: thus foal's well that ends well, unlike you, You havah dried-up womb. '
Wow, this actually hurt me emotionally. I'm surprised anything these cretins could say could do that anymore.
I would rather be a well-off kid with ADHD than a neurotypical kid whose parents are living from paycheck to paycheck.
Unfortuantely I've got that worst of both worlds.
Okay. Women should start pumping out new units one after the other as soon as they're physically ready, regardless of their financial situation.
It's not as if in ten years they'll be struggling to feed, clothe and house little Brap, Pant, Tag, Sailboat, Pencil, Ziptie, and Josh Junior. You'll be sure to have lots of well-funded, efficiently-ran social programs in place to provide them with adequate food, clothing, medical care, shelter and education.
"God designed women to be mothers first and to have college and careers later, when they're finished having children."
Then God should have made us far more inclined to socialism as a species. I'm sure there are many women who wish they didn't have to work full time and could spend a majority of their time with their young children. I'm also just as sure that the same thing applies to many men. Unfortunately, staying home all the time is neither financially feasible for most people, nor is it psychologically healthy to isolate yourself from everyone and everything except your caregiving duties.
If the decades-long trend of stagnation of lower-and-middle-class wages in this country changed so that it was financially reasonable for one or (preferably) both parents to cut down on their working hours or take time off, I think you'd see more women having kids.
Yeah! Bible God and the other Sand Gods are pretty useless, they keep making the wrong design choices. It's almost as though they don't exist, who'd of thought it? It's as if a salivating tosspot were railing against reality and a universe which is deliberately hostile to its rabid brain-farts and who therefore enters lolsville for the entertainment of the reality-based and sane section of society.
Wow, dude, you've got it all ass-backwards. And men also can have genetic problems in their sperm the older they are.
Also, @1898054 - DAMN STRAIGHT! Also, it's be nice if people quit spewing nonsense about "abortion is murder" and "birth control is evil."
My mother had me when she was 22, and I have epilepsy. I got it at 24, though, so it probably doesn't have anything to do with my mother's age.
I waited till I was 28 or so, to have children, but it turned out I was infertile. Neither of us are inconsolably depressed over this fact, though, as neither of us are particularly interested in children. I think I probably was infertile all the time, as we used "coitus interruptus" as our contraceptive method for several years and it worked 100 percent...
God designed women to have college and careers in their fifties? You do know that children need care for about 15-20 years, right? Will you help finance all the children of women who are not financially stable?
As there is no evidence for the existence of any gods, the modern PC feminist attitude completely disregards non-existent gods' designs, yes.
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