@ JellyJuice #698073
But God doesn't say "no butt sex" he says:
Leviticus 18:22 "Do not lie with a male as one lies with a woman; it is an abhorrence."
That means NO gay sex.
Actually, that pasuk means no male homosexual intercourse. It says nothing about female homosexuality, and nothing about males in a sexless extra-marital relationship.
As far as I know, there's nothing in the Torah against the above relationships, as long as males follow "pru u'rvu" ("be fruitful and multiply").
For the record, I'm Jewish and an Israeli. I am not, however, a believing Jew.
@ JellyJuice #697889
As far as I've understood it (so please, share your understanding of it with me :) ):
Judaism doesn't originally have a hell, and the later introduction of it as purgatory makes it compulsory for all, but only for a limited amount which depends on your life. Even a Tsadik is not entirely without sin.
On Yom Kippur all is forgiven, including in purgatory.
Getting into heaven is no real challenge for a Jew, and your children are Jewish as their mother is Jewish. I don't remember what the fate of gentiles is. Anyway, Jews are God's chosen, according to Judaism, whether they like it or not. Few things can truly excommunicate you from Judaism, even if Jews themselves are less tolerant of, for example, marrying a non-Jew, which once resulted in immediate excommunication from the community and is still often looked down upon.
