Dixie Girl, don't get discouraged. Some men are intimidated by a strong, supportive female who can actually see the issues that our race is going through, and who want to do something about it.
Some men get into the different orgs and crews because some are really heavy into drinking, fighting, sex and drugs. Most men join because they are concerned with the way we whites are concerned with the decline of the white race in America in general, and the fact that white men are losing out on jobs to non-whites so frequently. They are concerned about "white flight" and the rising population of non-whites and what that means for our race and its survival. The 14 words ring in their ear on a daily basis.
Our men are being blatantly discriminated against in the workforce, they are being outsourced by Indies and Pakis and other Asian people. It worries them, depresses them, and yes, scares them, for they are supposed to be our warrior, bread-winning, he-men and are not supposed to show fear.
I am not excusing their behavior, just trying to share some of the stresses that are on them to "produce" and "do something" that can cause them to behave in a negative manner to those who love them best. Remember, those who love you best and feel the most comfortable around you are the ones who lash out at you the quickest. This includes your children, siblings, parents, and spouses.
Just have a little patience with them and consider the source. The U.S. is declining at a rapid pace. Our men are worried about how they will be able to sufficiently support us, keep a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs, food on our tables, and insurance for our health, home and vehicles. That is a LOT of responsibility and worries, so let them blow off steam sometimes. You can always gently remind them that we support them and are their helpmates, lifemates, the person they can lean on when they don't think they can show just how down or worried they are at the time. Sometimes, there are things they cannot even share with their closest of friends in the orgs and crews.
I apologize if I have gotten on a soapbox, being so new here. I just saw your frustration and wanted to share with you. : )