You are a PUA? I thought you detested the PUAs. I’m an Incel and an Aspie. What do you think of this combination? Have you ever met any incel/aspie combination type people? I’m not extremely socially awkward and not the least bit nerdy but I’m not great with body language and talking to people and so I’ve become an incel. I also get annoyed and irritated when people make inaccurate/ignorant statements about many topics. I don’t have noticeably poor social skills in general and I don’t make visible fuck ups but I tend to avoid eye contact and feel nervous about social contact and avoid all social gatherings.
I really have no opinion of PUAs and don’t detest them because the women they are picking up are mostly sluts anyways, the good girls don’t usually fall for the PUAs. Maybe some do, but that’s inevitable anyways. About living in an oppressive communist regime with less choice, yes I agree. I’ve never considered dating an American girl because I know that 1. An American woman would not want me, as I am not exciting enough to be around and I have no money, and I do not use any social media whatsoever which is seen as weird by American women. I don’t drink alcohol casually or play sports and I don’t like going to parties or clubs but I’m not going to sit in the basement and play Dungeons and Dragons either. I prefer to spend my time reading educational material.
2. I would not like an American/westernized woman. I’m not a male rights advocate but I do believe women should at least be in the kitchen and make some food for their man. I’m not saying they should stay in the kitchen all day, just 3 times a day at minimum for breakfast lunch and dinner. Also they should keep the house clean. For this I prefer Asian women from impoverished countries.
3. She must be a virgin and cannot have had previous boyfriends. No exceptions on this, and I’m not a virgin myself.
4. I’m not a narcissist and I don’t think I deserve a stunning blonde girl straight from the Playboy magazines. I prefer an East Asian/Southeast Asian girl with non-primitive features and a slim figure, although not too slim.
Does this seem over the top?
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"I'm not a narcissist. I just think that if a girl wants the honor of being at my beck and call she should save herself not just sexually but romantically. Obviously I'm not going to do the same -- that wouldn't be fair to me -- but I have to have some kind of standards. And no primitives."
Does anyone even know what "PUA" and "aspie" mean?
Hahaha! So, you think a woman's purpose is to serve you food all day (news flash: cooking and cleaning up the mess of preparing three meals a day IS staying in the kitchen all day) and to clean up your mess. She must also be a virgin, so, in your dreams, she won't realize how sexually inadequate you are in comparison to other men, while you can have a history of sleeping around, and she must be thin.
Your incel problem isn't money or any of the other excuses you made for yourself. Your problem is that you think it's 1950. Or maybe 1850.
I admit, I had to look up PUA, aspie, and incel. Why the fuck are these things? Who the fuck talks like this? Am I just a mad man under a rock or are these things honestly said?
John, I'm afraid your East Asian/Southeast Asian girl with non-primitive features and a slim figure will put up with your shit just long enough to qualify for citizenship. Then she'll find out just how incompetent you are in bed, as well as your hypocritical "I can have sex, but I expect to marry a virgin, cause I don't want a slut like the ones who slept with me."
Have you ever met any incel/aspie combination type people?
No, but I suspect they're loathsome individuals who give a bad name to those with Aspergers. Such as yourself, because I suspect you are a fedora-wearing neckbeard in addition to being a creepy racist cunt.
I’m an Incel and an Aspie.
And I'm a bisexual trigender pyrofox atheist. Check your benefits.
I’m not a male rights advocate but I do believe women should at least be in the kitchen and make some food for their man. I’m not saying they should stay in the kitchen all day, just 3 times a day at minimum for breakfast lunch and dinner. Also they should keep the house clean. For this I prefer Asian women from impoverished countries.
You do realize this sounds MRA-ish, right?
If you get openly annoyed and irritated when people make (what you see as) inaccurate/ignorant statements, then you do have poor social skills in general.
I'm not an Aspie, I'm just introvert and shy, and people have always told me that it's just "practice makes perfect". And I am getting better; as soon as you realize that everyone else is also worried about the image they are projecting, you can relax somewhat.
A good PUA makes "good girls" fall for him, stupid. If the women are so called “sluts”, with the imagery that comes with that, it takes no artistry to pick them up.
1. Most of that is probably true for all women (and men too), silly. We all want to be with interesting people. If you read so much educational material, you ought to have the basis for being interesting.
2. Westernized? Are the women allowed to make food for themselves, in your world? Do you actually know any Asian women from impoverished countries? How can you tell that you prefer them all, over all “westernized” women?
3. Hypocrite much? Sounds more like you don't want women to laugh at your poor bed skills.
4. Non-primitive features? So, she ought not to match your primitive prejudices, then?
No, it seems way below the bottom, or something.
Yup, pretty much to the point. Also, you`d be suprised how many cooking women today, tend to be the independent, modern type.
Edit: Just thought of something, if he`s involontary celibate, then I`m involontary unemployed, can I start thumping my feet now, insted of going with the trouble of trying to find one?
There is a difference between social awkwardness and aspergers. I'm guessing this guy just falls into the former category.
I'm sure he'll find his Thai-Bride and bring her to America. I'm sure she'll view it as a job or prison sentence required to earn herself a better life. But good on him. I've met a lot of women who have immigrated under similar circumstances - nearly all have been happy with the decision.
I'm also sure after 5 years she'll separate and move on with her life, leaving him thousands of dollars poorer and no less clueless about women. Good on her.
Well, if you feel nervous about social contact, YOU have bad socials skills.
And learn that skilled seductor and manipulator can charm nearly everyone.
First point : have you tried dating one before making that statement ?
And seriously : living as an hermit is the best way to stay single.
Second point : You have over your Head a nice bullseye labelled "Con me !" You ave to learn more, and not reading materials heavy in confirmation biais.
Third point : Hypocritical and double standard.
Fourth point : You're also a racist.
I could have considered myself an incel, but contrary to you or other incels, I have come to understand that I had a part of responsibility in my celibacy.
Amazing. A person "on the spectrum" looks down on other nationalities and women because, while he may never be able to support himself, gosh dang it, he's a White male!
That you have Asperger's doesn't give you the right to check out of society, and become this level of sleaze.
I don't drink. I don't have a lot of money. I don't party, and I am on the autism spectrum. Guess what--I have a girlfriend of five years. So drop dead.
Not even Dr. Hannibal Lecter would be interested in making a pie out of your arse meat, John.
I am an artist . As per Mason Verger, I 'pick up' John. Then I paint with words upon the canvas of his mind using hallucinogens. A shard of glass. A canine present. The canvas becomes Carmine . The canine is satisfied. This is my design. [/"Hannibal"]
Making an MRE feed his own face to a dog. Does this seem over the top?
"I’m not extremely socially awkward [...] I tend to avoid eye contact and feel nervous about social contact and avoid all social gatherings."
"I’m not a male rights advocate but I do believe women should at least be in the kitchen and make some food for their man."
I am not nostalgic but back in the good old days, everything was better.
"She must be a virgin and cannot have had previous boyfriends. No exceptions on this"
What is it with this obsession with virginity? The old "theory" that previous sex partners would affect children a woman would have later in life with other men is not true! And I would (at least for my first partner) prefer a girl who knows what she is doing so I can learn from her. And indeed, just losing my virginity without follow up would just leave me more confused.
"I’m not a virgin myself."
Dirty hypocrite!
"I’m not a narcissist and I don’t think I deserve a stunning blonde girl straight from the Playboy magazines. I prefer an East Asian/Southeast Asian girl with non-primitive features and a slim figure, although not too slim."
I think you failed to understand the problem. Hint: It's not (in itself) the "blonde" part.
At least I have self-awareness, am not an entitled misogynist or bigot and actually very interesting once I manage to come out of my shell, so I do have hope that, when I meet the woman of my dreams, she might indeed fall in undying love with me despite my many flaws (of course, unfortunately, I still need to meet her...). At the very least, I have much better chances than John.
1: It's now only American/Western women who won't want you. Despite that stereotype that you MRA's adore so dearly, Asian women have brains and backbones.
2: If you believe that a woman's purpose is to be a some man's beck and call 24/7 you are a borderline MRA at best. And interesting choice of woman: somebody who's too poor to have many choices or be picky (in theory) so that you look good. Nice.
3: You get all the sex you want (or try to) while she has to keep herself locked up until you decide that she might be worthy of you?! Go fuck yourself. And that's probably the only sex you're getting anyway since you're too broke to buy it. Who do you idiots think you are that being with you is a privilege? Oh, right. Sour grapes.
4: Yes, you are a narcissist. Just because you have an Asian fetish instead of a blonde one doesn't make you any better.
Conclusion: Yes, this is over the top.
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