Normie advice makes sense when you consider it's coming from a woman

J"ust be yourself"

Woman don't realize that Chad's do not actually care about their personality at all, they just care how attractive they are. Woman can do whatever they feel like doing around men, and at least one guy is bound to fall for her, making the woman think that she found someone who likes her for her personality and intelligence and not the fact that she has a vagina.

"get fit/be healthy"

The physical expectations society puts on men is much more rigorous and difficult to achieve then for woman. Woman just need to not be morbidly obese for them to be considered "fit", while men need to have low body fat, huge muscles, a six pack, and be tall.

"Take a shower"

For some reason, normies don't realize that most incels do shower and take care of themselves in an effort to make themselves as attractive as possible. All an incel and man can do to make themselves more attractive in the morning is dress well, have a shower, and maybe have a nice haircut. All of this maybe results in looking just a little bit better than usual. Woman on the other hand literally spend hours making themselves not even look like themselves. Make up, manicures, hair styling. All of these things make them look much better than they are, and make them feel entitled to a man who is in another league and that they do not actually deserve.

No one will love you if you don't love yourself"

It must be easy to love yourself when every post you make on Facebook gets hundreds of comments from people telling you how beautiful you are, or thousands of likes on Instagram for your bathroom selfie. Woman have been told that each of them are a Disney princess who deserve a prince, while men have been told they are useless and disposable unless they are attractive and wealthy.