"Well why should we love homosexuals, exactly?"
Jesus said there were two commandments from which all others stem: Love god with all your heart and mind and love your neighbor as yourself.
Do you want to disobey your god?
"God hates them and finds them an abomination."
Then let your god deal with the situation. It's not your place to judge anyone, remember?
"We should hate God's enemies, no?"
No, you should not. See that second commandment up there that I mentioned.
"Homosexuals want to molest our children and "convert" them to their deviant lifestyle."
Why is this stereotype still around?
"I cannot "love" people like that, sorry."
Then you are breaking one of your god's highest commandments. People who do not follow your god's commandments end up in hell. You, therefore, will end up in hell. With all of the homosexuals and atheists, presumably.
We'll save you a toasty warm seat.