Now guys, I catch flack sometimes, but I teach our boys to avoid girls who will not submit and/or who are contentious. One of teh ways I tell them to weed out a contentious woman is to ask them how they feel about these passages. I promise you they will get really upset (especially if they present it wrong ) or they will find one who wants to have that type of marriage. It takes longer to find a wife one can get along with, but that is all too important. I also tell them to look at the girls relationship with her father, because how she reacts to her father will be an indicator of how she acts towards them.