Note how you're immediately internalizing guilt for the way males are even though there is physically no way you can bend yourself over backwards to mitigate their feelings of inferiority - a typical feminine, maternal, virtuous approach all males learn to exploit since childhood. Males are the way they are entirely because of nature and you can't (and shouldn't) appease them enough into changing their ways. What you should be doing is removing them from society so no woman is materially impacted by their fantasies, beliefs and behavior. Ironically, that might actually improve them because they'll do anything to continue being close to women - it won't be the genuine moral epiphany your idealistic female self is hoping for, but rather something akin to opportunistic compliance of a subdued animal.