i haven't read any rape stats and never met anyone who was raped as far as i know, but from what i understand, stranger rape is pretty rare. like a guy dragging you into an alley way. i'd imagine its especially rare in urban (city, not black) areas where there is a lot of foot traffic so stuff like that is harder to get away with. because the chances of someone walking by, seeing it, and intervening are much higher. anyway, i'm assuming that most rapists are actually acquaintances / friends / relatives of the victim. so my question is why do you hang out with people you don't wanna have sex with? like if you're more likely to be raped by someone you socialize with rather than a stranger, doesn't it make sense to only socialize with attractive men? so that if you are forced to have sex, it will at least be with someone you like. this question is specifically for women who think all men are potential rapists.

edit - imagine if you were forced to work construction because your education level prevented you from getting an office job, wouldn't it make more sense to live in a city with warm weather? like ya, you're doing work you don't wanna do, but it could be worse. i don't wanna work outdoors, but i'd rather work outdoors in san diego than anchorage. just like forced sex is bad, but its not as bad if the guy is good looking.