[A woman writes to Emuna Braverman because she is frustrated with her husband ogling other women in front of her.]

I think you should begin by doing everything you can to keep his attention on you and your relationship. If you are going out together, dress up for him. [...] You may bristle at this advice. After all, he's making the mistake, why is it your responsibility. But the answer is that you are in this together and you want to make every effort to enhance your marriage. I do believe that the more attention a man gets from his wife, the less likely his eyes are to wander. Perhaps you've stopped trying, perhaps you take the relationship for granted, perhaps you're too tired to make the effort. We can never stop trying, we can never stop making the effort - not if we want our marriages to stay alive.