This is it!!! I love the people, but I cannot celebrate anything that hurts them or separates them from God. I will celebrate their lives, their accomplishments and important moments in their lives, but I will NOT lie to them nor be a stumbling block for them. I would rather be a light in the dark, helping guide them to Truth (which may annoy them at times), than lie to them and leave them alone and confused in darkness - ultimately leaving them separated from Truth for all eternity. In case you're wondering...this costs...
So-called health professionals who insist this is normal are themselves mentally ill.
They will bow before God and answer to Him for deceiving hurting and lost people. Lost and hurting people need Truth-Jesus Christ, not liars saying whatever needs to be said to continue deceiving and manipulating people who are already lost and hurting.