Jlibourel : “Let me get this straight: A drunk girl at LINGERIE PARTY, f'r chrissake, gets felt up, and this is a cause for outrage? I wonder what the cops' reaction to all this would have been had they been summoned, as some posters have suggested.

Given the OP's description of his attire, I am assuming "lingerie party" meant one in which the partiers wore undergarments, not one where lingerie was sold, on the order of a Tupperware party in days of yore. (Do they still have those things?)”

Globetrotter: “yeah, Jan, makes me feel old. if a girl got drunk and passed out at a party when I was a kid, somebody probably would have driver her home and ****ed her, and everybody would consider it pretty fair. as a father of a son and daughters, I am conflicted on the changes”
Jlibourel ^I think the fact the girl was wearing lingerie and seemingly nothing else puts the matter into a different dimension. I mean, having too much to drink at party is something most of us have done in our wayward youth. A "lingerie party" sounds more like a borderline ****--at least to this old fud!