(Posting this because I hope this is just some incel making up a story. This is seriously deppressing if true.)

Ex-Chad Here. Incels are 100% right

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Ex-Chad Here. Incels are 100% right
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I was asked to repost this from incels...I think some of my comments are being filtered as spam anyway.

This is my first time on Reddit and I made my account just because I stumbled on this community and realized that I've never found myself feeling such a sense of empathy for strangers before. I found it by searching around the net for information about the "Blackpill" in the political sense (I'm normally on 4chan, 8chan) but I've found it's just as applicable here (probably more so).

I used to be a Chad. I was never a frat guy or a spring breaker type but I used to be a musician. The music scene I was involved in didn't have girls who look like the "stacies" that I see pictures of here necessarily but it was full of girls who would rank around a 7 or 8 who would fuck anyone playing in a band who had decent looks.

My own looks used to be around a 7. I'm not 6ft tall and I didn't have abs but coupled with my musical ability, in the eyes of the band whores, I was put at more of a 9. I spent most of my 20s doing drugs and hooking up with girls. The compliments I got most often were never about my looks. It was always about my personality and song writing.

when I was 28, I settled down with a girl who wasn't a total whore. She had slept with a few people but so had I so it didn't bother me. We were together for 4 years. She came to all my performances and was super supportive of all my musical endeavors. Outside of the music scene, things were very domestic. We sat around watching movies, had sex all the time, cooked for each other and eventually we moved in together. I turned down the many offers of sex from former fuck buddies because I thought she was "the one".

I got into a single car drunk driving accident after playing a show one night and ended up in the hospital. During this time of my life, I drove drunk all the time. I'm not proud of it. I just thought I was invincible. This was the first time I got in a wreck. I went down the side of a hill and wasn't wearing a seat belt. I went halfway through the windshield after cracking the driver side window with my face. The left side of my face was lacerated beyond recognition. My glasses were smashed into my left eye which I can no longer see out of. At the time, I felt lucky to be alive. I remember my girlfriend's face, when the bandages came off of mine. It was an expression of horror. I told her right then "please don't leave me" and she began to cry and said she could never do that.

She stayed with me for about 4 months while I healed. Miraculously, I didn't have any internal injuries and the only thing I broke was my right arm. My face, however was destroyed. The lacerations themselves were bad enough but the nerves were also damaged so that half of my face is paralyzed. I smile like a stroke victim now. Once the months had gone by and it became apparent that my face would never be what it used to be, my girlfriend left me citing the drunk driving as the reason. We used to ride around under the influence all the time and she herself continues to do that to this day, so I knew it was because of my face. I believe she is currently in a new "serious relationship" with another guy who I used to be on the same playing field as.

My relationship wasn't the only thing I lost because of my "new look". My band mates were all good looking guys as well. When it became apparent that my face was driving away our female fans, I was replaced. They told me that it was because I wasn't able to play guitar as well since my accident.

I was friends with many of the club owners and they allowed me to play solo a few times. None of the old female fans gave a shit about my songwriting anymore. The only people who came to see me were sympathetic friends. I only played a few times and the crowds got smaller and smaller so I eventually decided to quit putting my ugly mug under the spotlight. I quit playing music altogether. I continued to attend concerts at the local venues and tried to talk to girls I used to fuck all the time and was treated like a leper. It has been 6 years since all that happened and I've had zero contact with any girls ever since.

I now DJ at a bar every Friday and Saturday night. Another sympathy gig from a friend. It's a place with a different crowd every night and it's dark. I've grown my hair out long and I try to wear a hoodie to hide my face. Girls approach me all the time. They drunkenly put their arms around me and request songs. Once they catch an eyeful of my face, depending on how wasted they are, they either politely back away after getting their song queued up or shout "OH MY GOD WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU?"

Even if you dress like garbage, don't groom yourself and are known for being a piece of shit, being a DJ is generally a gig where pussy is almost a guarantee. That is of course, unless your face is fucked up.

So... I don't give a fuck what the normies say to you guys. Women of all types only care about looks. Your interests, sense of humor, talent or money will always be secondary. Women will adopt whatever it is you're into if they find you attractive. I've seen liberal girls turn into right wingers, hippie girls go straightedge, feminists turn into tradwives, and all kinds of other 180s for Chad. Literally nothing else matters but your face and I'm living fucking proof.

I now live my days abusing prescription pills to numb myself from this lonely existence. I think about suicide often. It crosses my mind every day.

anyway, as someone who has seen things from Chad's perspective and from that of a (albeit recent) incel, I would like to put forward - AMA