Albeit, I was very lonely living with a wife who wouldn't cook, clean or be a wife. I bought her books on how to love a man, but she refused to read them. We definitely had romance problems. She viewed our bed with disgust. Even after brushing my teeth, she literally refused to open her mouth to kiss me, repeatedly saying, “I don't like germs!” How does a man deal with such rejection from his own wife? God knows I speak the truth. She was a lousy wife. I've only been married once, and it was one time too many! Even if you fill out a prenuptial agreement (which I never did), they don't always hold up in court. There is no protection against a crooked court system and a disloyal wife. I fully understand why men are reluctant to get married these days. The benefit-to-risk ratio isn't worth it anymore. In essence, marriage means a man trading 30 years of happiness for one month of pleasure. When I hear a man thanking his loyal wife publicly, I am compelled to leave the church auditorium, because I cannot hold back the tears. I've never known such loyalty in a wife. All I've known from a wife is irresponsible and childish behavior, betrayal, stubbornness and evil. I am reluctant to listen to Proverbs 31, because it grieves my heart that I've never found such a woman. Proverbs 31:12, “She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.”

Our youngest daughter had a bladder control problem. She used to come home with notes saying that she smelled like urine. Her mother might as well have not been there. I became depressed from living with such a messed up wife. Everyone blamed me. Her hateful mother blamed me. Thug women cops blamed me. Her loser friends blamed me. Not one “doctor” ever diagnosed her with the truth, which is, “You're lazy and you need to get right with God!”