A few months back, after I finished work, I met an colleague outside of the company. I saw her a few times before, so we said Hi and had a little chitchat. She told me that she was running late for her train when she saw the car key in my hand. She asked me if I could give her a ride and I said yes. So I drove her to the train station, we had a little bit of small talk you know the kind of conversation people have who don’t know each other too well.

I dropped her off and she thanked me, telling me how sweet it was that I gave her a ride. She said if I wanted to grab lunch sometime with her and I answered, sure yes, give me your phone number so we can arrange a meeting. She said she would message me through the company email program. Well its been two months and I’m still waiting.

Now learn from my mistake: I wasted time and money one a female that forgot that she owned me one the moment she came home to her Chad bf. A female is not entitled to your help, especially if she gives you nothing in return.