Surplus boys/young men have always been sent off to war. You'd fit that description perfectly, Goony.
Wars are often waged to protect society. Hating or disliking it makes you bad soldiers, dolt.
Incels are a minute subgroup, with anti-social introverts, unaccustomed and/or unwilling to cooperate with others.
Society, having resources to train the best, will not just outnumber you by the thousands, if not millions, but also have the best soldiers.
Having little or nothing to live for makes you dangerous, reckless soldiers. As you don't fight for a cause, you'd be pretty poor kamikaze pilots and suicide bombers too, as you might chicken out at the last minute.
Again, most wars are waged to PROTECT society. You might be good guerrilla soldiers, or revolutionary agents, but not army soldiers. Armies count on cooperation, not stupid recklessness.
I'd guess that most of you DO fear death, when push comes to shove. You've a dual personality; you feel inferior to most, yet you feel you DESERVE sexual favors, that all women OWE you the use of their vaginas. You nurture the hope of "ascending" and becoming A REAL BOY, whatever the heck you imagine that to be. You would probably not be able to handle respecting fellow women soldiers, nor the women of the civilian population you are supposed to protect.
I'd say it's in today's war that you NEED to be either strong and athletic, or tech savvy. That gun is hardly a pistol, but a semi-automatic rifle or whatever they are called. Even if they're lightweight, they get heavier by the minute. And, have you ever felt the kick to your shoulder with each shot? Me neither, but I hear it's painful...