Funny thing: All these people calling us bitter and resentful ARE NOT INCELS
They are females and normies. Neither of them(and especially womyn) have experienced even 1% of our torment. They don't know what it feels like to be continuously rejected not just by women but from men as well who you try to befriend but to no avail.
When you are an incel noone respects you. Femoids don't because we are sub 8 and other males don't because we are virgins. Men want women. If you get what they want(meaning you get laid) then they respect you because you are ahead of the game. If you are a virgin after a certain age though, it's impossible to earn that.
Inceldom cripples you socially and sexually. While other people meet other people and expand their circles we just get isolated even more. Social people become more social and asocial more asocial. Sex brings more sex and celibacy more celibacy. Incel life is a vicous cycle and we have every right to be bitter and resentful towards genetically privileged people.
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I'm a virgin, and guess what, you people are ridiculously bitter, resentful, and just all around filled with hate.
You know what. If inceldom worries you so damn much, how about you doing something about it? Or asking for help? It's still better than going to a random site, spewing garbage, and then continuing the same miserable life you think you were predestined to have.
I am a 23 year old male. I strongly long for the love of my life. I never had a girlfriend or sex. I am far too familiar with sexual frustration and feelings of romantic hopelessness. I have ADHD. I have Asperger's Syndrome. I am fat. I have rather unseemly warts. I am not tall. My room is a mess. My social life is nonexistent.
You are not merely bitter and resentful, you are downright addicted to bitterness and resentfulness.
@pharoahbastethotep-I hope I am not being too forward-but I would like to tell you that you are one of the contributors to fstdt that I enjoy reading very much,for you wit,sensitivity and humour.
Said it before, I'm going to say it again, keep telling you that high school has shown you how the world works and you've got it all figured out after your sophomore year, kid.
I'm extremely sub- 8, a virgin and have various mental disorders that should in theory make life problematic like OCD and social anxiety disorder. I have only had problems making "friends" in the way I think you mean, shallow hangers- on who are there just to inflate some artificial score. I've made actual friends by use of having an actual personality and interests that allowed for an organic meeting. I once met a great friend because I was wearing a particular t-shirt, and another because I happened to notice they had some artwork of a character whose creator I knew. If you have trouble making shallow friends and that upsets you well... fuck you. Try making real ones.
Observations about life coming from a 22 year old dork who's afraid to leave his room & has experienced nothing; that's exactly what everyone was looking for. Although his first statement is correct- we are not incels. We are functional people without the extensive list of hang ups & other mental problems.
I'm still unclear why these losers are convinced that women can spot male virgins on sight. Unless he's wearing a sandwich board proclaiming his virginal status or a big scarlet "V", there's no way to know. I've seen plenty of traditionally ugly guys with dates, friends & families, so all the whining about looks is pure nonsense.
@ Pharaoh- I like your posts. Perhaps you're just an old soul trapped in a 23 year old body, & are surrounded by people that are intellectually beneath you. Hopefully, you'll someday find your Nefertiti.
Ok, let's try to take this at face value. Maybe that's right. If your loneliness is truly because someone else is more "genetically privileged", THERE IS NOT A DAMN THING YOU OR ANYONE ELSE CAN DO ABOUT THAT. So stop whining about it, because it just makes you more miserable and makes others regard you with even more scorn. There is nothing to be gained and a lot to lose by being whiny. Another approach to life is called for, and if that requires professional mental help, then get it.
I'm a virgin and have social anxieties, and have only had one boyfriend (at age 14).
But unlike you manbabies, I'm not bitching about it.
Perspective coming from a 29-year old whose social life was practically non-existent until my early 20s: Many of us have been in your shoes, dipshit. Some have gotten the love and companionship that we crave, others are still trying for it, but none of us have been as whiny and bitter as you.
Many of our posters here have shared their experience with social isolation and mental illness, and frankly you all seem to be amazing people. I'm sorry that you've had to struggle with your issues, but I fully believe that you are good people, that many others will recognize your value, and that you will be happy. The people whose posts we reproduce here are a constant reminder of all the ways in which we could have gone to hell, but I'm confident that all of us are and will remain way better than that.
I understand where you're coming from, Elie; as I've mentioned before, I went through a nine year dry spell that was partially my own damn fault because of some really poor life choices I made after graduating from college and being in a relationship with an incredibly toxic person I'm fairly sure was borderline that left me with a lot of trust issues.
I didn't really blossom socially until I was in my mid-20's. While there was a lot of frustration during that nine years, I had a social life and hobbies so I came through it just fine. Right now, I'm in an enjoyable casual relationship with a wonderful woman I enjoy spending time with.
@Pharaoh Bastethotep
I'm sorry. With that screen name, is it OK for me to continue thinking of you as a tall dark figure with a little grey at the temples, sitting in the shadow of a pyramid dispensing wisdom? Or shall I adjust my thought processes and regard you with grandmotherly pride and affection?
<**sending one virtual hug, overnight delivery guaranteed**>
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