I hate the LGBTQ Community

Now before i start, i am not homophobic. When i say LGBTQ Community, i dont mean the individual average homosexual person, i mean the cringy over the top twitter culture that the LGBTQ Community has become. I hate the fact that it is somehow considered wrong that I wouldn’t date a transgender, or that its considered toxic masculinity for punching a man that attempts to kiss me (knowing that I am straight). Or that its somehow homophobic to be ok with a straight pride parade? Or that its homophobic for me to get annoyed that so many already established fictional characters are being turned gay for the sake of “rEpReSeNtAtIoN”. I still wont get over the fact that Kevin Hart lost an opportunity to host the Oscars because of some jokes he made. Im not even gonna acknowledge how many years ago those jokes were made because its irrelevant to the fact that they are JUST JOKES. He said that if he could prevent his son from being gay, he would. Why is that wrong? As a straight man, I would prefer if my son were straight. If my son were gay, I would still love him regardless but it wouldn’t be the same type of bond (im not gonna get into that because this will be longer then it should be). Im sick of being called a homophobe for basic normal things i do/say/think just because The LGBTQ Community has become a group of easily offended cringe worthy narcissistic twitter stan culture enthusiasts.