"You're a traitor and Uncle Chan if you have a exclusive preference for the white woman."

Disagree. Somewhat. Plowing a woman of a certain race is one of the best ways to assert dominance to a man of that race. It tells him he isn't desired by his own. It tells him he has failed at being a powerful protector.

Exclusive preference with racial worship sprinkled on top, then yes.

Revenge fucking is not.