I hate how normies think you're volcel unless you're spending every waking moment approaching women
Tired of this mentality that there's no such thing as an "incel", only "volcels".
In the mind of a normie, if you're doing anything other than spending time in the gym or approaching in the club, you're a volcel. Nvm that more than 45 minutes in a gym per day has diminishing returns.
No matter what, they'll claim that you aren't trying hard enough.
26 comments
more than 45 minutes in a gym per day has diminishing returns
Um, what? What reality does this guy live in? Just an excuse to remain inactive methinks.
You aren't, "trying hard enough"; you're a bunch of whiny manbabies with shitty personalities who can't take a look in the mirror and realize that the reason why you can't get your widdle pee-pee wet is staring back at you.
Edit: And the difference between us "normies" and you is that we don't have the all-consuming obsession with sex that you whiny manbabies do.
If you're not very attractive, and don't want to put in the effort to be very attractive (and who does), maybe you should go after less shallow women? Of course, you might have to work on your personality, but at least that doesn't take any time in the gym, right?
Only because spending LESS than 45 min. in a gym (or doing other rigorous activity) is so incredibly bad for you.
Having more than a billion dollars also has diminishing returns compared to the first billion. That doesn't mean that two billion isn't still a shitload more than one billion.
He's not the most wrong. Like, ya, his reasons are all the way wrong and he's obviously worried about the wrong side of these things. But it certainly does seem like a disproportionate number of people really can't grasp the idea that some people are just unattractive in some way they can't readily help. Always seems to be people who've gotten theirs already too, oddly enough xD
@dazedandconfused: Well, incels are 'involuntary celibates,' or guys who are convinced that they can't get a woman because the world is against them. I assume 'volcel' is this guy's shorthand for 'voluntary celibate,' or person who chooses not to get a relationship.
Speaking of...
Voluntary celibates are actually generally good people. I've known some nuns and monks who are fantastic folk. I knew one monk who was an ex-marine built like a truck who had several skull tattoos. He was the monastery cook. Really kind hearted soul.
What this poster is is annoying and despicable
No...rather than approaching actual women, it's far better just to curl around your game controller and blame women for their failure to approach you.
...or maybe your current situation is caused, in no small part, by incel "friends" who embitter you with one-sided stories concerning how their bitch wives and the feminist courts stripped them down to their torn, cheeto-stained underwear during a divorce.
You're the one who pidgeon-holes himself as 'incel' only to rage against women when you're the victim of self-fulfilling prophecy.
Advice? GROW UP!
After sharing mindblowing orgasms with the lady in my life today, I don't need to try .
And if I can, what's your excuse, manbabies?
normie
Being Normal. Feels good, man. So thank you for the ultimate compliment.
When it comes to 'insults', you aren't trying hard enough.
It'd be like trying to insult Andy Murray by saying to him 'You're Number One!'.
if you're doing anything other than spending time in the gym or approaching in the club,
No, those things are just nice window dressing. The main point every normie dumb enough to approach an incel ever makes is that you should lose the crappy attitude , yet that's the one thing you always refuse to acknowledge because apparently being a dickhead makes you feel good.
@2014692
Again, attitude problem. Maybe they really do have certain traits that make it difficult for them to find a significant other, but their atrocious handling of those problems kills any chance they may have had.
No matter what, they'll claim that you aren't trying hard enough.
Well, it's true. You don't need to spend all day in a gym or a club, you need to at least actually get out of your damn house . And spending "every waking moment" trying to talk to girls isn't the bare minimum for your celibacy to be involuntary, it'd just be proof you're a creepy, desperate, and single-minded fuck. Go outside and do something other than obsessing about girls. If you do talk to any, don't say anything about being "incel" - you'll either scare them off by sounding like a sociopath, or just prove you're not worth the trouble by sounding like a dim-witted misogynist.
On the contrary, I think you'd be a lot better off if you let the issue go for a while. Concentrate on improving your life in other areas that you might wish, and participate in activities that make you happy. Perhaps you'll gain some helpful perspective.
The ones feeding you otherwise are the "game" idiots who think everything about male/female relationships is like singles bars.
I am not a "Normie" in most senses of the word, from my lack of culturally acceptable masculinity to a political leaning not normally seen in this country, a lack of religious faith and actual mental illness. But I believe in the things you reject because I at least have the self-awareness to realize that they are good for the society as a whole and ultimately,for me as well.
So fuck off, some of us non-normals want to enjoy the stability of normal life.
It's true that there is no such thing as "incel," just "volcel," but you whiny manbabies don't want to hear it. It's not that you're not trying hard enough, you're not trying at all.
And no, we don't think you should spend every waking moment approaching women. What did women ever do to deserve that? The last thing women need is a bunch of creepers coming up to them wanting sex. No, I think the best advice is first and foremost to change your fucking attitude toward women and society. Stop obsessing over sex so much and stop thinking of women as evil, manipulative sex toys who want to screw anyone but you. Getting rid of the idea that society owes you sex is important, too.
@Doubting Thomas
Good response! You've summed it up pretty nicely.
For the OP, I'll add the overworked phrase "Get a life". By that I mean get an activity, get a job, get a hobby, get an interest, do SOMETHING, so (1) you will find life to be enjoyable, with or without a mate, (2) you will be able to forget that obsessions of yours for a while, and (3) if someone should ever ask "What do you do?" you will have a response for them that doesn't sound like "Do? I constantly agonize over my loser status and whine about women who don't want me".
And you manbabies are "incel", "volcel", however the fuck you want to put it because you're a bunch of vile assholes.
If women really only dated "douchebags" like you and your "Nice Guy"TM brethren always whine they do, you would have no problem getting a girlfriend.
"Normies" aren't totally fixated on s-e-x like you are, so they don't care when, how much or what kind of sex you have, as long as it's consensual.
There is no such thing as either "incel" or "volcel". You are simply normal human beings who just haven't had sex yet. There are people who die of old age, who are virgins.
Many so-called "normies" have also not had sex yet, but it's not that big a deal to them; it will happen when it happens.
If I had spent all my time in gyms or clubs, I wouldn't have met my husband. I met him through my friend's (then) boyfriend. (None of us are friends with that dude anymore; he was an Objectivist and worshipped Ayn Rand.)
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
To post a comment, you'll need to Sign in or Register . Making an account also allows you to claim credit for submitting quotes, and to vote on quotes and comments. You don't even need to give us your email address.
