Seriously, fuck people who call you entitled for wanting sex. Fuck people who pretend your pain isn’t warranted.

I swear this isn’t to humblebrag but to prove a point. Sex is fucking incredible and absolutely necessary to be truly happy and content with yourself as a human being. I was incel until 3 months ago and although I knew my state was fucked, I wasn’t completely sure why because I didn’t know what I was missing out on. When I had sex for the first time, I honestly felt myself become whole. I was literally broken the entire time. Being inside of a girl who genuinely WANTED me inside of her (unlike a hooker) gave me such an unbelievable high and made everything, EVERYTHING worth it. I felt like I was doing what I was supposed to do. And honestly, it wasn’t even just the sex. It was being undressed by a girl who genuinely wanted to see my most intimate self and feel my skin. Undressing her for the same reasons. I felt so fucking validated. Kissing her, kissing is the most pure way to connect with another person. After the first time, my entire demeanor changed. I probably sound like I’m exaggerating but everything about me just got... better. Even she said so.

I feel like knowing that I’m having regular sex diminishes almost all of my problems. No matter what goes wrong, at least I know that I have something truly amazing to look forward to. And even if she and I don’t last (we’ll always be in each other’s lives regardless), at least I’ll know that I once experienced such a beautiful thing.

IT loved calling us drama queens for wanting to end our lives over not being able to have sex but I’m being 1000% honest... life isn’t worth it without it.