"Maybe niggers should stop stealing bikes if they want to avoid racism"

Can you imagine the outcry if someone said this? The idea that the victim of hate speech somehow deserves it based on a stereotype would be the object of contempt if it were posted on Reddit or elsewhere
But if you say that incels should shower more to avoid ridicule from femcunts, that's totally valid and Reddit won't object to the blatant victim blaming.
Black people have many movements in support of their cause, in spite of their equality and affirmative action in first world countries. How many rallies do we have? Who marches for us? Who seeks to defend us from societally encouraged abuse? No one.