"I know an ugly guy who has a hot girlfriend, you guys are full of shit!"

Okay, I dont doubt you. Well, I kind of do, you're probably overstating how ugly he is and overstating how hot the girl is for dramatic effect, while leaving out other important details that make the relationship work (usually money) but I believe the core concept of what you're saying, that it's not impossible for an ugly guy to find a partner.

I dont think anyone here believes it's actually 100% impossible to find someone, but finding someone you're compatable with is another story. You IT folk always talk about how attraction just happens, and you cant force it, so please stop expecting us to drop our standards to absolute 0 just to get a partner. At that point it's basically literal objectification. You see her as only a hole to fuck because theres absolutely no other reason to be with someone youre not attracted to in any way at all.

Most of us dont have insane standards contrary to popular belief. Were not looking for super models.

My standards:

-Around my age

-not morbidly obese

-hygenic

-not emotionally or physically abusive

-3/10+ face

That's not really asking for much at all, especially since I exceed all of those requirements myself.

Anyways, back to the core point. Firstly, the pool of young women willing to date an ugly guy is a lot smaller than the amount of unattractive guys. In the words of SJW's, we face unconscious biases and have to jump through many hoops that the average person, especially woman, will never understand. We face systemic prejudice in the form of lookism on a daily basis. People automatically believe attractive people have better personality traits and the opposite is true for ugly people

Telling us about how you know an ugly guy with a girlfriend and that disproves everything we say is like telling a poor black person that racism doesn't exist because you know successful black people, and its 100% their own fault for the position they are in now.