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Re: I'm distancing myself from my Stacy friend. Am I a shitty person?
i have been there... and it destroys a lot of opportunites of new connection with people etc. but tbh, they don't really care. stacies or beautiful girls are used to attention, compliments, and special treatment that when you open up your sufferings to them they will do nothing but feel sorry for you and it's the shittiest feeling in the world, and most of times you are just nothing but their sidekick also, when you and your stacy friend will have a fight and you're a victim people will believe she's the victim and people will mock you for the sake of favoring her and they will see you as the one who did wrong instead of her, it sucks, also she's a big threat if you ever got a guy who's interested in you or a boyfriend and if he saw her he will immeadietly move his attention to her because obviously men are visual beings.. so i think it's not a shitty thing to do, it's a safe defense mechanism to be honest, think that it's better to be alone than to be with someone who reminds you that you're ugly, unwanted, and undesirable.. think that.