I think people should look up to their pastors as their heroes (all humans have heroes), but when it comes between a husband and wife, I ALWAYS take the side of the husband! Pastors are not even to be compared ladies to YOUR OWN HUSBAND! The Scriptures teach, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22), but there is no command whatsoever to obey your pastor. A minister is simply an influence in your life for God, as he teaches the inspired Word of God, and if it ever becomes more than that, you need to RUN AWAY FROM THAT PLACE! Biblically, a woman is not supposed to rely upon her pastor for Bible knowledge, but her OWN HUSBAND! 1st Corinthians 14:35, “And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.” You learn at home from hubby! And if your husband is a theological ignoramus, then you praise him for what little knowledge he has ladies! We need a whole new generation of Christian ladies who have been RAISED TO PRAISE, instead of the NAGGING HAGS today! BRAG, DON'T NAG HAG!!!