bicchlasagna #sexist

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Why are most women so cruel to men?

I will honestly never understand it. This has ruined somethings about my own personality as well. I used to be a very caring and considerate person and because most women I interacted with were constantly cruel, demeaning & just straight up mean to me, I've become cold and distant. I find it disgusting how these women actually get a kick out of shaming and humiliating us men for literally anything we do. And the worst part is that society dictates to us that we're basically not allowed to react or say anything back otherwise we're labelled as "sexist" or "misogynist". For example, eventhough I haven't experienced this for myself, it's a well known fact that short guys have it harder in the dating scene. And the majority of women will not only reject them but will go as far as to ridicule and humiliate them over something they have zero control over. Body shaming men is totally fine but don't you dare say anything about women's bodies. Since women tend to overreact whenever a man makes such a comment, I feel like they're proving the misogynistic men right when they say that women are over-emotional and that you cannot have a rational argument with a woman. Call me a niceguy, Incel or whatever you like, I don't care. I won't try to prove I'm a good/bad person to some random stranger on the internet. The people close to me know who I am and that's enough for me. Sorry if this is all over the place but I just wanted to rant.

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This seems to be the expression of a childish attitude. Only my hypothesis, but if any of it is true, that may have been what those women were complaining about too, but the message never got through.

But sure, women sometimes speak to men as if they're children and the contrary is also true (i.e. mansplaining). Sometimes it's even as a result of often dealing with children. More context is lacking, including the age of the poster and of the women he dated (if any).

If people see misogynism in this, it's probably because of over-generalizations like those in this very post, that begins with a loaded question suggesting its hasty conclusion...

Something I noticed from experience is that some women have difficulty to trust new men and this can be apparent when first meeting them. Before they begin opening up more, we can't really know them. There usually are reasons behind this. And I'm sure that it's not just a women thing, you probably view with suspicion the random people who approach you on the street. Now imagine if the intention of some of them wasn't only to sell you crap.

Awkwardness is a thing too and everyone can occasionally embarass themselves... What if some of this was misinterpreted and you didn't play the game when you should have?

For example, eventhough I haven't experienced this for myself, it's a well known fact that short guys have it harder in the dating scene.

I hear more whining from men about hypothetical women not dating short men than I hear actual women discussing how they don't want to date short men. I'm starting to think this is a meme more than anything.

Body shaming men is totally fine but don't you dare say anything about women's bodies.

Body shaming men isn't fine and I'm sorry you met such childish dicks. That said, try googling "Tinder fat". There are plenty of people openly asking how to stop seeing all the fat chicks on Tinder, or if they can just put "no fat chicks" in their bio. Whenever I see "funny memes" about the woman who prefers tall guys, the punchline is always that she's fat and therefore stupid for having desires. Any time you see a fat woman in media, 9 times out of 10 her appearance is a joke, and don't even try posting a bikini pic on Instagram if you're fat. It's seen as perfectly fucking fine to "say anything" about women's bodies.

Since women tend to overreact whenever a man makes such a comment, I feel like they're proving the misogynistic men right when they say that women are over-emotional and that you cannot have a rational argument with a woman.

What kind of rational argument is there to be had in some dude calling a woman fat? Isn't your rant about the short guy's dating problems (which you haven't even experienced) proof that men are overemotional and can't have rational arguments, then?

“…I used to be a very caring and considerate person and because most women I interacted with were constantly cruel, demeaning & just straight up mean to me,”

sorry, but i have been on the internet long enough to question this. i know cruel people. i have been cruel.

but when you say ‘cruel’ do you mean they set up your desk in a freight elevator, or when you asked them out they turned you down?
is body shaming from calling you short, or just that they ask a taller guy to get something off a shelf?
i don’t know for sure which would be worse for you, that women are all teh ebil, or that they just are not thinking of you at all.
anyway, i find exactly none of this to be true, even in my work center, which is overrepresented by male military vets. you’d think the women would get cruel in self defense, but no.

@Speakeasy #133325

“There are plenty of people openly asking how to stop seeing all the fat chicks on Tinder”

Just stop using Tinder.

@PMSFKS #133359
OH, no, no, no. I have personal tastes. Every platfor out there should cater to my personal tastes. the world must cater to my personal preferences. porn should only feature women i’d be willing to sleep with.

and stop accusing me of being ‘entitled.

@PMSFKS #133359

I'm not using it. But since it's widely used, I used it as an example of how people openly tell fat women to not even bother trying, just as this guy claimed every woman does to short men.