( Calidris )
Choose, young TIM, trans inclusive means you're just in a gigantic sausage party with your TIM friends because all the lesbians either get banned or leave. Or you get the TERF space where the lesbians you so direly want to coercively rape will not let you in because THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT.
Well, this “TIM” (me) rejects your false dichotomy… as does reality itself.
I think you meant “correctively rape”, since every rape is by definition coercive. Either way, never in my life have I wanted to rape anyone. ‘Correctively’ or otherwise.
Now, Calidris, tell me: Why did you beat your wife? Why did you murder your child?
See, I can play that ‘game’ too.
But there's a secret third option: you could take off the cheap party city wig, wipe off the unskilled makeup, throw away the hooker boots and stripper heels and just be who you are, maybe that's a feminine straight man or even an autistic man.
Okay, so…
Don’t have a wig, don’t need one.
Nice of you to assume how skillful I am at makeup. But of course, you’re a TERF, so assumptions are your bread and butter.
By the way, it’s pretty rare that I even wear makeup at all — with one small exception. The one thing I do put on most days is a bit of eyebrow accent with an eyebrow pencil. That’s all.
I have no hooker boots, no stripper heels, no sexy wear, no fetish gear. Never had or wore any of them.
I am not a “feminine straight man”. I am not autistic.
So, TERF… your precious stereotypes fall completely flat here.
Now, go on. Do it, do what your Ovarite ‘sisters’ always do in response to that. Call me a liar and refuse to even consider that you may be wrong.
We’re all just a bunch of liars whenever we don’t fit what you claim must be true of us. How convenient for you, to be able to simply flat out deny any deviation from the norm which you prescribe upon us, and to effectively define yourself as incapable of being wrong.
How very rational and logical of you.
Oh, also? “Just be who you are”… that’s exactly what I’m doing, hun. And transitioning made it possible.
I am me.
I am not the box you’re trying to shove me into.
I am not your goddamn stereotype. By the way, didn’t you want to abolish those? In particular, gender stereotypes? Yet you keep on foisting them on me. There’s a name for that, you know: blatant hypocrisy.
I am also a trans woman.
But above all, I am me. And you don’t get to define me.
And then you can find a straight woman (or bi), you know the wimminz who genuinely do appreciate dick. And you could have a normal life and maybe find some happiness instead of horrifying, disgusting and scaring the ONE kind of woman who does not do penis
So typically for your kind, you reduce the immense richness and complexity of attraction and sexual orientation to only one aspect: genitalia. Just like you do with other things, like gendered behavior. You simply can’t accept complexity, can you?
For you, it’s just dick or vagoo.
Well guess what? I deny your simple-minded reductiveness.
and keep being alone, as a medical patient for life
Well, that’s odd. I’m on hormone therapy, with zero negative consequences so far.
But you know what? There may very well be those later. In which case… I accept that. I had made peace with the possibility of harmful side-effects, even the most serious ones, long before I ever started hormone therapy.
So even if the worst happens… I won’t bemoan my fate or wail “Why did no one tell meeee????”
It would simply be something that I knew could happen, and I know that I would have no regrets about having gone on HRT. Yes, I am certain of that — I can be so, as the result of awareness, careful consideration and acceptance of the possible consequences of my decisions.
and generally looked upon with distrust because you're living a lie.
Ma’am, I know what living a lie is like. I lived one for a VERY long time… and then I started transitioning.
Now, I am more myself and more truthfully so than ever.
Also, distrust at “living a lie” is the one reaction I have never gotten from people so far for being trans. Fortunately, the world isn’t Ovarit, yet.
(Continued in a follow-up post below.)